Today was a really interesting day. So many truths came to light... not because I went to see Ammachi... but because it got me thinking. ( Read more... )

Why is the sponsored link on my gmail page a pro-ana site? ummm... wtf?

Today I got my acceptance letter from NMHU. I also got a letter from Kody's cousin in boot camp. I had dinner with friends, got 3 points added to my grade in Government, discovered the game Alpaca-o-poly, drank the recommended amount of water and laughed until I cried. The world is, as usual, going to hell in a hand basket... but somehow I really am truly blessed to be here in this moment, on this day. Thank you, universe.

How does trading up work? I need a new laptop. The one I have fried. So I'm thinking of attempting to trade up for one... is that possible in this day and age? I mean, a guy started with a paperclip and got a house... but I don't know that many people. I guess this is an experience that will get me back into the swing of talking to strangers...

Oh my god. Drunk Lori has no place talking to people on Facebook. I sound like a complete idiot even when giving the soundest of advice. Seriously, I need to shut it.

Memorial Day weekend was alright. Rather similar to every other weekend except that we both ended up getting sick...

Having an epiphany is one thing... then executing what you get out of it is another.

I have books on the way for my next two classes. I got a $6000 tuition assistance scholarship thing from the military since Kody is in... and while I really hate being associated with the all this stuff... if they're going to give me money, i'm going to take it and be grateful for the fact that I have one less thing to worry about.

My sleep schedule is all out of wack again. Today I woke up, took Kody to work... then did some chores and slept til 2... in the afternoon... oh my god. Of course this means my body made up for the 7 hours of sleep I missed because of insomnia... but still. I feel like a total slacker. Which I guess I kind of am.

We got a new router which came with a "free" 50 song download. I think it actually is free. It's kind of false advertising though because it's a free trial period that you're signed up for and after that you have to remember to cancel. It's kind of awesome though because we've gotten 50 new songs and a free audiobook.

I'm thinking about going back to the UU church... only because I love the sense of community that comes from church but I'm a nonbeliever. I believe in people. This is what it always comes down to. I don't know why it's so hard to accept. I really enjoy playing church though... when I can find a liberal enough one that doesn't shake me back to the fact that I cannot get behind what they believe... but I don't believe in god. I think when we die, we're dead... I'm okay with all of my beliefs individually... if there were a friendlier sort of atheist group I would join... but I've yet to find one.

I guess I didn't have anything too interesting to say, but I wanted to post. Because I keep saying I'm going to post regularly... and I keep thinking nothing I have to say is that interesting... so I don't post. In the scheme of things, most things aren't important though.

Anyway, I hope you're all doing awesome. I am going to go take some midol and go lie back down. Sometimes being a girl physically hurts... blah.

This turned out to be really long... ( Read more... )

I am so bored I could poke my own eye out just because... but my better judgement keeps me safe. ugh sooooo bored.

Yesterday was the best day ever! We're looking at moving across the water from here. I've spent the last week looking at apartments and yesterday Kody got off work early. I took him and showed him my two top picks.

Since I'd already viewed the apartments the second people just handed me the keys and Kody and I went by ourselves up to the model. Anyway long story short, we got up to this awesome apartment, walked in and it just felt like home. We walked out onto the balcony and I got really upset because it looked like there was a cat in a really sad state lying in the yard that I was about to go see if it was still alive and go from there. As I got closer it started to move and I realized it was not infact a calico cat but 8 grey and white baby ducks snuggling in the yard. So we spent about half an hour watching the baby ducks snuggling and I think that's the apartment we want.

I wish I had a video of the ducks. So sweet!

My mom passed her teacher certification test! hooray!

I don't think I got the job I wanted... I'm bummed but I'll just keep looking. ugh.

I love you as certain dark things are to be loved,
in secret, between the shadow and the soul. -Pablo Neruda

here is the deepest secret nobody knows
(here is the root of the root and the bud of the bud
and the sky of the sky of a tree called life;which grows
higher than the soul can hope or mind can hide)
and this is the wonder that's keeping the stars apart

i carry your heart(i carry it in my heart) -ee cummings

I'm working on accepting this affirmation as truth:

The cleanliness of my house and my self worth have no correlation.

Things that bring my joy lately:

Patty Griffin


The Green Brothers and Nerdfighting!


Shiva Rea, sunshine, a capella groups, acoustic versions, love, wildflowers, hope, social justice groups and you!

Thanks for being such great friends!!

I am so sleepy today! I have a ton of emails to respond to and... I can't seem to finish any of the things I want to say. blargh.

I had a really amazing weekend. We didn't do anything too terribly exciting, but it was really relaxed and we talked through a lot of the things that we've both been having trouble communicating. Communication is so important. It's the difference between thriving and failing in a marriage and... I think we're thriving again. Marriage takes so much work sometimes and it's not always very much fun... but it's worth it.

I don't really have much to say. I'm just really content with my life right now... and I almost never post when I'm actually content with my life.. This is to prove that it really does happen.

So I pick 25 of my favorite movies. I choose a quote. You guess what it's from (no cheating) and that's how it goes. Then you post your own if you so choose... that's the way these things go.( Read more... )

So I went through a crappy spell. I'm doing muuuch better now. Something about sunlight makes everything better. I accepted a job I like more. I am thinking I'm about to get another job offer and I'm not sure what the etiquette on taking it is... both are better than anything else i've had in a long time.

I have been going to this Episcopal church in the most inner city part of the small area I live in (well there is a city that's more cityish about 25 miles away but i mean here). They have a soup kitchen and they believe in social justice and that makes me happy. It came up in conversation after church when we were all sitting down to lunch with the homeless people that the kitchen feeds, that there is a catholic worker house in norfolk... I think I'm going to start volunteering there. If you don't know anything about the catholic worker movement you should look into it. Dorothy Day has been my hero since I was 15. I didn't understand the idea of christian anarchism at the time, but I knew she was an extraordinary force for good in the world and that was enough.

Kody and I are doing much better. We both got depressed and we both said things that hurt each other... some of it was us being insenitive to each other and some of it was that we were both being oversensitive within ourselves... not a good combination.

Kody's pay isn't being docked for that overpayment anymore and we're about to be doing much better off. This is awesome because now we can give back to this community and work on saving for our eventual move back to the west coast.

also i briefly left this journal and started another one which i barely wrote in but i was feeling tied to the past and this journal has come with me through a lot... the flip side of that being that it holds a lot of baggage. i'm setting all of that free though. i'm moving forward and it's okay to look back without living in the past.

i guess what i'm saying is, i'm okay and i'm going to be okay and i just need to remember who i am and act like it. i can't get bogged down and give up... because honestly, i'm an incredible force for change and goodness in the world if i let myself be... and just because i can't single handedly accomplish all the things think up doesn't mean i'm not doing anything... yeah.

Okay, so what the fuck have I been doing? Seriously? I mean, I come here... I babble on about totally stupid shit... I keep living my life in a way that will never actually allow me to self actualize...

I realized not that long ago that... I don't act on what I feel. I act on what other people tell me they think, i think. which is not something i do on purpose... it's a habit i picked up to keep myself from totally fucking up when i was coming off drugs... because obviously what i thought and felt didn't lead me down a path i was happy with, or could survive through...

however, there are some serious changes a-comin'. i can feel it in my teeth, my bones... i'm about to make some really hard decisions that might not feel good, but will lead to the outcome that will ultimately make me happy...

i know, this is once again very, very vague...

i'm just not in a place to explain right now... but i can say, things are going to get better... i'm going to do what is right for me...

i'm finally actually truly over dan. i left his funeral early... i couldn't sit through all the good things people had to say about them when i couldn't reconcile them with the dan i knew... i'm not angry anymore. and i know i say that over and over... but sometimes you think something is over but... today i felt my heart lift. i am in control of my life, i am in control of my body and the things i think and say.

i'm finally in control of my life again, i'm not giving it away.

this is going to change everything. i just have to go about this the right way and not spend the next however long burning bridges, like the old lori...

i love this lori. damn, where the fuck have i been?

My problem is that I watch life... I watch it pass me by.

I'm 28 now... 28 years old... I feel like I should be more established or at least happily disestablished. I don't get out enough. I don't know how to any more.

I'm lonely. I just need someone to tell me to get over my damn self already and get on with my life.

What the hell am I doing? Why?

I ask why too much.

I just realize I've changed so much that I don't even recognize myself...

I just need an honest to god, flesh and bone friend to sweep me up in their arms and tell me it will be okay... but i'm afraid to be touched... dear god, who am i?

All the things I think I want, I get and realize they make me miserable... and then it's too late... and the things that made me happy are gone...

i just want to go back to austin already. i'm sick of running. i want to go home now. too bad i can't.

I've been really busy lately, will update soon. Just wanted to say to all my Michigan friends... I love you! I can't believe how cold it is here much less there and I would definitely snuggle and keep you warm if i was there.

much happier lately. much, much.

My heart has become capable of all forms:
For gazelles, a meadow, for monks, a monastery,
A temple for idols, the pilgrim’s Kaba,
The Tablets of Torah, the Book of the Quran
I profess the religion of Love, and whatever the direction
Taken by its mount, Love is my religion and my faith

Tarjuman al-Ashwaq